Time Managment Envy

I've been reading about what some other people's days look like HERE, and it caused me to stop and consider what my day looks like, and what I would really like it to look like.
Currently it is still summer. Our hours go late into the night, so I'm a bit different than most people. Here's a stab at my current schedule compared to my dream schedule:

The Dream

5:16am Devos & work out
6:00am Coffee & computer
7:00am Yummy breakfast,reboot laundry
8:00am Phonics with DS,DD free play
9:00am Kids-Art Me-Fly lady zone
10:00am math games (sorting, matching manipulating)
11:00am kids-play outside Me-start lunch
12:00pm Lunch
1:00pm Kids-Naps Me-more Flying
2:00pm Call BFF while flying
3:00pm Snack & Circle time, Chores
4:00pm Kids-watch a show or play games Me-start supper.
5:00pm Supper
6:00pm Kids-Daddy time Me-Clean up & reboot laundry
7:00pm Stories & singing & bed time routine
8:00pm Kids-zzzzz Me-hang with DH
10:00pm Bedtime routine
11:00pm zzzzzzzzzz
12:00pm zzzzzzzzzz
1:00am zzzzzzzzzz


Reality

5:16am zzzzzzzzz
6:00am zzzzzzzzz
7:00am zzzzzzzz
8:00am DS wakes me wanting a snack and a show, me-coffee & computer
9:00am breakfast of some sort, clean up & get dressed.
10:00am Breakfast of some sort for DH, kids snack & play with toys.
11:00am park/outside
12:00pm open concession (I work in concession, DH takes kids)
1:00pm Kids-Nap

3:00pm DH swaps with me, lunch, Clean up camper, go to park or walk or shopping.
6:00pm Supper of some sort, swap with DH work in concession
10:00pm DH swaps with me, put kids to bed
12:00am DH closes concession, Hang with DH/clean camper
1:00am bed time.