Just then I looked back at my children in the back seat of the borrowed car we were driving. They weren't thrilled with riding all over town on a hot day with the windows rolled down, and having to wait in the car while Mike or I hopped out to do some kind of errand. The kids made no bones about it; they voiced their complaints. Yet, after being told that they just had to be patient and let Mommy & Daddy get their work done, they hunkered down and began making the best of it. Dade closed his eyes and promptly fell asleep, allowing us to carry him along in relative peace and comfort. Matia was unhappy with the wind blowing in her face, so she did what she could about it; she picked up her hat and played peek a boo with me. she kept her eyes on me and laughed at her present predicament.
The way my children handled an uncomfortable car ride taught me a lot about how I need to handle difficulties in my life.
- It's ok to complain a little.
- Eventually you have to stop complaining and make the best of a bad situation.
- Relax! Rest when you can.
- Do what you can to improve things.
- Keep your sense of humor.
- Find assurance and reassurance by keeping your eyes and heart fixed on God.
I just wanted to let you know that I'm constantly praying for you and family. I know God doesn't always answer I prayers the way we want, and I don't always know what to pray, but God knows what's best and He is there with you!
ReplyDeleteThanks Deanna. That means a lot to us.
ReplyDeleteErin, You are so strong. I dont think I could handle half the things that you do and you always come out with a positive attitute. I am learning, slowly. And your right it is amazing what we learn from our kids. This one made me cry cause I can just see in my head how it was going and imagened how you and mike were probably feeling with the added stress from the car and the fact that the kids just rolled with it was AMAZING! They really are such good kids and I love them so much. I wish I could be more help for you while you are so bussy in the summer. I hate hearing when things dont quite work out cause then I worry about you. I wish things could just be easy all the time. So that is what I will pray for. That this was the worst of the worst for the summer and that the rest of the season and the move will go smooth. I love you guys and I will try to help out when I can!
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